Welcome to my world.

My name is Vivienne Harlow. a 21st century holly golightly. I’ve been described as charming, intellectual, bohemian, free-spirited, deeply affectionate and warm, curious, adventurous.

The world to me is fascinating, illusory, mysterious: a glamour. Because I’m a writer by nature, and a lover at heart, life to me appears as a wondrous string of stories, like pearls on a ribbon. I’m well traveled and wildly adventurous. I connect deeply with whoever I meet.

I’m a 5’6, slender free spirit. My eyes have notes of green, gold, grey and blue. I’ve been compared to Rachel McAdams in my bone structure, Angelina Jolie for my lips, and Audrey Hepburn in my attitude. But I like to think there isn’t anyone who looks quite like me.

We’re all looking for an outlet: that person with whom we can indulge our fantasies, be ourselves. The person who bears witness to, and sees the beauty in, who we are. I aim to be that person for you. Let’s both experience delight…

  • St. Louis Summer date ideas
    With the weather fully at a hundred degrees, I think it’s fair to say, even a few days early, that summer has hit St. Louis. And although I’m tempted to just stay in my AC, I know there is so much to explore! Keep reading for my summer date wishlist in St. … Read more
  • Summer 2022 Tour
    I’ve selected my tour cities and dates for Summer 2022. After August I will be on a 4 week (or longer) hiatus, so don’t wait to see me if you haven’t yet! Please head over to my booking form if you’d like to meet me! 5/20-6/15 – St. Louis, MO 6/24-6/25 – … Read more
  • The sexy historian: St Louis’ experiment with legal sex work
    Those of you who have spent any time with me (and if you haven’t, what are you waiting for? Get thee to my booking form!) know that I can be a big nerd, especially about history, especially about sexy history! So I had to share when I recently stumbled upon a fun … Read more