How should I reach out to you?

Due to the volume of requests I receive, I prefer new suitors to contact me through my contact form and send their screening info at the same time via text or email.

What’s your screening process?

For my safety, I require screening for all new admirers. This helps me feel completely comfortable with you, and we can both focus on enjoying the companionship.

Your screening info can be texted to me at 470-747-8385 or emailed to vivienneharlowxo@protonmail.com.

Screening Checklist:

  • First and last name, email, and phone
  • A clear photo of you holding your photo ID with ID information visible
  • 2 references or proof of employment (LinkedIn profile / professional bio / website / work ID / business card, etc.)

Once you’ve completed the screening process, we can set a date!

Where and when are you available?

I’m based in St Louis & available elsewhere on frequent tours, FMTY and DMTY dates!


I’m available for outcalls at hotels, events, and travel destinations.

I have a varied wardrobe appropriate for a variety of events, climates, activities, and occasions.


I share my incall location the day of.

For a quick lunch break or the like, I may be able to find a location convenient for you if you book well in advance.


6/24-6/26 – Minneapolis, MN

7/2-7/4 – Sioux Falls, SD

7/4-7/6 – Omaha, NE

7/12-7/13 – Cincinnati, OH

7/14-7/16 – Philadelphia, PA

7/25-7/28 – New York, NY

7/29-7/30 – Pittsburgh, PA

August and September – Hiatus

What is your deposit policy?

A 20% deposit is required to secure your booking. This covers incidental costs incurred before we meet. Please have the remainder ready in cash at the beginning of the date and leave in an envelope visibly on a table or, if in a restaurant or bar, in a gift bag.

What if I need to cancel?

I understand you may have to cancel or reschedule our rendezvous. Should that occur I will do my best to accommodate.

In most scenarios, if you cancel at least 48 hours in advance, I will refund your deposit or apply the deposit to a future booking. If you must cancel within 48 hours of our date, however, I will not be able to refund your deposit. Should I have to cancel at any point I will refund the deposit in full.

Do you accept gifts?

Gifts are never expected but highly welcome. I maintain a wishlist that I hope illustrates my tastes as a companion sufficiently; please check there to see if there is anything in particular I am looking for and to either present the gift upon meeting or send me a gift card to the retailer selling the item. Jewelry, flowers, chocolate, perfume, books, and other unexpected tokens of affection are also always welcome.

I’m interested in a longer term arrangement.

I welcome patrons and mentors interested in underwriting my studies, travels, and professional and creative advancement in the healing, fine, and performing arts. Those who wish to sponsor such endeavors are encouraged to reach out.

Can I request a specific outfit?

Admirers planning our dates in advance may also request to see me in gifted attire, jewelry, or adornments, which I am happy to oblige if within my tastes. My sizing is included below for your convenience.

Dress size: 4 US
Bust: 37″
Waist: 25″
Hip: 36″
Height: 5’6″
Shoe size: 8.5-9 US, 39 EU
Cup size: 34D
I need to protect my identity.

I understand our society can be judgmental of those seeking companionship or sensual healing services. I totally disagree with that, but I’d be a poor businesswoman if I didn’t place discretion at the top of my list of importance. I won’t share your personally identifying information with anyone, and after screening all personal data will be promptly destroyed.

How can I learn more about you?

Gentlemen hoping to learn more about me before reaching out may follow me on Twitter, Switter, Instagram, Goodreads, or Giftful, or subscribe to my blog, all of which I update regularly.

I’m __ years old / ___ race / ___ gender… will you still see me? Does that mean I don’t have to screen?

I’m an equal opportunity companion! I see clients ages 18 and up, of all genders and sexual orientations, and of all races. Clients are approved based on screening, etiquette, scheduling and services requested. All clients are expected to go through the same screening process. I am a low volume provider who gets many requests, therefore I am able to be selective with clients and reserve the right to refuse clients for any reason. The most important factor in whether I will see a client in the future is their kindness, respect, and good manners in the past.